What is Speed Dating?
Find out how speed dating works and what to expect.
Speed Dating — a Modern Way to Meet People
Speed dating is a structured way of meeting new people where singles get to meet many potential partners in a short time. In a relaxed atmosphere, you have several mini-dates lasting 5–7 minutes each. Afterwards, you decide online who you'd like to see again. If the interest is mutual — a so-called "match" — you'll receive each other's contact details. Simple, efficient and with real people instead of endless swiping.
How a Speed Dating Event Works
Register Online
Choose an event in your city, book your spot and pay conveniently online. You'll receive an instant confirmation email with all the important details.
Check In at the Venue
Arrive on time at the venue. At check-in, you'll get your name badge and a brief introduction to how it works. Grab a drink and relax.
Have Mini-Dates
Let's go! You'll meet all participants of the other gender one after another. Each conversation lasts 5–7 minutes — perfect for getting a first impression.
Switch on Signal
An acoustic signal (e.g. a bell) indicates when time is up. Then you move to the next seat and meet the next person. This way, you'll meet 8–12 people in one evening.
Rate Online
At the start of the event, you log in with your access code. After each round, you can choose who you'd like to see again (Like) and who you wouldn't (Dislike). It's completely anonymous.
Get Your Matches
Once you've both liked each other, it's a match! You'll receive each other's contact details by email and can arrange to meet up.
Tips for Your First Speed Dating
Be Yourself
Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Authenticity is attractive. Show yourself as you are — it saves time and leads to genuine matches.
Ask Open Questions
Avoid yes/no questions. Ask about hobbies, travel or funny experiences. This creates real conversations instead of interrogations.
Make the Most of Your Time
5–7 minutes may sound short, but it's plenty. Focus on the person in front of you, listen actively and enjoy the conversation.
Have Fun
Speed dating isn't a job interview. Laugh, flirt and enjoy the evening. Even without a match, you've met new people.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many people will I meet?
Typically, you'll meet between 8 and 12 people. The exact number depends on the event and is shown in the event description.
Can anyone see who I liked?
No! Your ratings are completely anonymous. Contact details are only shared when there's a mutual like (match).
What happens if I don't like anyone?
No problem. There's no obligation to like anyone. Without a match, nothing happens — nobody finds out that you didn't like them.
What should I wear?
Wear something you feel comfortable in. Most events take place in bars or restaurants — smart casual is a good choice.
Can I come with friends?
Of course! Many people come with friends. During the speed dating itself, you won't sit together — you'll meet up again afterwards.
How quickly will I get my results?
Once all participants have rated, the matches are released. Depending on the event, this takes a few hours to 2–3 days.
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